MISTRESS, HUSBAND AND WIFE. WHO IS TO BLAME? AND WHAT WILL HAPPEN.
Today there will be a short release, a kind of postscript for the last video, where we tried to analyze such a complex topic as the trauma of rejection using the example of the couple Alsu and Yan Abramov, who are currently going through a high-profile divorce.
Today the question is easier. I was inspired to do it by a blogger named Anton S. He calls himself the gossip daddy. And this is the case when I do not agree with a person on any issue, well, that is, I very, very rarely share his opinion, but nevertheless I watch it. And here he is in his last video - I will leave a link in the description of the video, he asks a question - in a love triangle husband, wife and mistress, well, let's say Yan, Alsu and Anastasia Reshetova - who is to blame. According to Anton, there is no need to pounce on mistresses, she is a free woman, does not betray anyone and does not break any oaths. And as I have already told you, my opinion almost never coincides with Anton's, and this situation is no exception. I consider the mistress to be a very influential person in this triangle, and today I want to argue my point of view.
There are different opinions on the topic of who is to blame in the love triangle husband-wife-mistress.
The first opinion tells us that the moral offense in the triangle is committed by the man. Well, he is bound by obligations, he violates them, deceives his wife, and as a rule, deceives his mistress too, well, and in fact, from a moral point of view, the main responsibility lies with him.
Another point of view, less common, is that the wife is to blame, because she did not keep an eye on something, there, I don’t know, she waved her hand at herself or her husband, well, and that’s why everything happened this way.
A very common point of view is that the mistress is to blame, like, why did she interfere in someone else’s family. That here you are not directly acting as a criminal, but as an accomplice or a concealer of a crime. Well, indeed, the husband and mistress are, in a way, accomplices in deception, at the very least.
How do these relationships grow? My point of view is that these relationships are formed on the basis of a deficit of resources that the participant in the triangle who has two partners at once receives.
If you are interested in what this deficit is, how it is formed and how a love triangle becomes a solution for it - watch this video.
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Time codes:
00:00 Introduction
01:17 Basic ideas about the causes of a love triangle
01:24 Man as the main culprit
01:41 Wife as the culprit
01:51 Mistress as the culprit
02:10 A love triangle is NOT a search for sexual diversity
03:03 A wife's crisis as a reason for a husband's deficit
04:05 Business trips, small children and other common situations that predispose to a deficit
05:37 Mistresses are found by those who love their wives
08:04 A mistress as an influential element triangle
09:20 No one can be resourceful all the time
11:17 Another reason for the deficit: gradual degradation of deposits from the wife
12:30 The only case of a complete victory of a mistress
14:22 Conclusion
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