Why am I not enough?

Опубликовано: 25 Июнь 2026
на канале: Brian G. Murphy
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A viewer wrote in with a very common question:

"My boyfriend asked to be open because he says he really enjoys sex with other guys. The question I always ask is why am I not enough? And he says that’s a selfish way to think. Is it selfish to think that with as much as I do for him, I should be the one he focuses on?"

If you or your boyfriend wants an open relationship, "Why am I not enough?" might be a reaction that you're having. In this video, I offer some ways you can think through that question.

SPOILER ALERT: you matter and you are enough 😘

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