MARRIED TO A TURK. Jealousy, clans, and family dynasties in Turkey. Personal experience
What really awaits a Slavic woman after marrying a Turkish man? In this episode, Svetlana, who has lived in Istanbul for 27 years, openly shares her journey.
We discussed everything from strict dress codes and jealousy to the nuances of Turkish medicine and child-rearing. Why are Turkish men possessive? Is it easy for a foreign woman to find work? And how has Istanbul changed in 27 years?
This interview will be useful for anyone planning a move to Turkey or wanting to learn more about this country than the hotels tell you.
"MARRY A TURK"
series from BALKANAMAMA
In the new series "MARRY A..." we tell the real stories of women who followed their prince to distant lands. How they dove headfirst and gave up everything for that same mad love depicted in films. What awaited them beyond their home country? What customs and traditions of their new homeland caused them a real culture shock? And how did they manage to fit in in a foreign world?
We present to you the second film, "MARRIED TO..."
💭 We say:
[00:00] — Teaser: What should you be prepared for in Turkey?
[01:00] — 27 years in the country: the hardest part of adapting
[02:10] — Living in "clans" and family traditions
[02:45] — Strict boundaries: from short skirts to control
[03:54] — How women dress in Istanbul
[05:31] — Jealousy of Turkish men and a sense of ownership
[07:23] — Is polygamy a thing in Turkey?
[08:14] — Do Turkish husbands cheat?
[09:07] — Medical peculiarities: How Svetlana gave birth in Turkey
[11:25] — Is it easy for a woman to find work in Istanbul?
[12:35] — Are prices in Istanbul more expensive than in Moscow?
[14:15] — Why are sons so important in Turkey?
[15:10] — Educational issues and private schools
[17:10] — Raising children: Matriarchy and the pampering of boys
[20:45] — Hobbies and free time of Turkish wives
[22:14] — How to learn Turkish: personal experience
[24:15] — Husband against work: "It's a disgrace!"
[27:00] — A Market Stroll: Turkish Spices and Tea
[31:10] — The Advantages of Living in Turkey Compared to Russia
[34:25] — Advice for Those Looking to Relocate
[36:35] — Losing Freedom: "You're Being Put in a Box"
[37:55] — Converting to Islam and a New Name, Elif
[41:25] — Turkish Cuisine: Favorite Dishes and Kokorec
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