Most women think there are only two options in relationships: be the low maintenance cool girl and hope for the best or be the high maintenance diva and risk being labeled ‘difficult.’ In my last video we talked about why being low maintenance can slowly erode your self-worth and leave many women feeling invisible and even resentful in their relationships. But what if I told you there’s a smart, happy, simple path right in the middle? A balanced standard that protects your self-respect without turning you into someone who constantly demands the most if that’s not authentic for you. I call it being medium maintenance.
Medium maintenance is the absolute baseline standard every woman should live by in relationships. It’s not about being dramatic, demanding, or entitled. It’s about honoring your needs, setting clear boundaries, and expecting respect, care, and thoughtfulness, without guilt. Because you don’t have to ask for the absolute most in order to stop accepting the absolute least. And by the end of this video, you’ll know exactly how to start implementing this medium maintenance standard in your own life, so you never find yourself in relationships where you’re mistreated or simply tolerated instead of truly valued. So, if you’re ready to stop accepting less than you deserve, let’s get started!