POSITIVE Q&A. Sheikh Chubak azhy
A collection of questions and answers. A positive video
Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
I have a question for you. If you listen to your husband, do everything he says, and he says, "May you burn in hell." What will happen then? Will I burn in hell because of his words? - No. You won't burn in hell. Because if you call someone "an unbeliever," and they aren't, then what they said will come back to them. Or if you say about someone, "You are one of the inhabitants of hell," and they are, on the contrary, one of the inhabitants of paradise, then this means that the one who said this is one of the inhabitants of hell.
I had an interesting story. A husband and wife had an argument and came to me. I said, "What happened?" The husband wants to divorce his wife. I asked, "Why?" and he explained that his wife called him a scoundrel. I told him to call her something similar. He said something similar, and I told them, "1:1," and sent them home. So, is that why we need a divorce? They called me something unflattering... so what now? Don't make things difficult.
"My goat died. She left behind a little kid. It cried pitifully for three or four days without its mother. At the time, my nursing wife had a lot of milk, so she pumped it out and poured it out. Was it okay to give her milk to the kid?" "You've come up with a new, original question! They used to ask, 'If a chicken dies and an egg is taken out, what do you do with it?' Everyone scolded me for asking that question. Now they've come up with something like this. It's better to let the kid starve. But if you give it milk, you'll keep asking if the kid is related! Mother's milk should be treated with respect. A child feeds on its mother's milk for two and a half years." It's no longer permissible to do so. For example, if a woman cuts her hair, it's forbidden to sell it. Anything that belongs to a person, or more precisely, their body, cannot be sold. Let's say your kid grows bigger than a cow, and then all the women will start giving their milk to the kids?! This is not good. A person shouldn't stoop to such a level. Every part of the human body deserves respect.
In the village of Agaryk, they sell alcoholic beverages. We've told the people of this village not to sell them, but they continue. Please tell them not to sell them. – Don't sell! Alcohol is prohibited! Alcohol is prohibited! Anyone who drinks alcohol, pours it, sells it, buys it, produces it, helps produce it, distributes it, sponsors it, pours it, loves it, praises it, makes a toast, and so on. They are all equally sinful.
"Ummul Khaba'is" is the mother of all evil. Those who sell alcohol will not profit. Let's make du'a for them. “Amen. May Allah grant them modesty and the ability to refrain from bad deeds. Allah is Great!” I won’t read out names. It would be awkward, after all. (question from the audience) – Huh? Is vodka just a drink? If you go to a barn and find cow dung lying there, then you could also call it a cake. Let’s compare this drink to such a cake. (remark from the audience) – No, it won’t. Even if you change the name, alcohol is still alcohol.
Should the white be removed from the egg or can it be left in? – Why would you remove half an egg? You paid for a full egg. The white and yolk together cost 5 soms. Otherwise, it would be wasteful.
There have already been so many questions about eggs. A hen lays an egg, and it’s dirty. If you eat the egg without washing it, your food will become contaminated. In some places, eggs are thrown into the meat while it’s boiling. If the egg wasn't washed then, the meat and broth are no longer edible. Some people boil eggs in a kettle. If the egg isn't washed before boiling, the kettle must be thoroughly cleaned and washed afterwards. But if you wash the egg and then boil it, the kettle is safe to use. Separating the white from the yolk is necessary for those with diabetes. If you have diabetes, give the yolk to your wife and eat the white.
Thank you for coming to us. May Allah be pleased with you. I have the following question: Is it permissible for a guy to communicate with a girl? - Yes. It's good for a guy and a girl to communicate, but only after the wedding. After the wedding, imagine with your wife that you are a guy and a girl and communicate. Anything before that is all communication from Satan.
I started fasting in the month of Ramadan. I fasted for five days, and then broke the fast due to health reasons. What will happen to me for this? May Allah be pleased with you. You've paid off 5 days. The rest will remain as a debt. Once you recover, make up the missed days. Some people ask if it's permissible to fast; there are 3 days at the beginning of Ramadan, 3 days in the middle, and 3 days at the end. I answer: Yes, but only if you add a few more days. Add 7 days at the beginning, 7 days in the middle, and 7 days at the end. It's the same as if you borrow 10 som and return 1 som. But 9 som will still remain as a debt. You'll still have...