The Dangers of Collar Blindness (And How to Avoid It) [BDSM]

Опубликовано: 30 Апрель 2026
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In this video we'll talk about the recent phenomena of "collar blindness": when submissives seek out D/s relationships and power exchange for the sake of getting a collar, or stay in bad relationships to stay collared. Where does this come from, how can you avoid it, and what can we do as a community? Let's talk about it. (idea originally from Pup Amp and Race Bannon)

00:00 - introduction
02:30 - collars in the BDSM scene
05:30 - collars as a status symbol
08:45 - how we treat collared vs uncollared people
12:30 - the dangers of being collar-blind
19:17 - how to get out of collar blindness
27:00 - final thoughts

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Art by: @animositi on Instagram

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Artist: Audionautix
Website: http://audionautix.com/
Track: Transportation
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