POV: you’re a girl on discord
this is a documentation. This is what I had originally written in my notes:
I’ve never seen a girl in my life ahh men
In this note purely created for my own researching purposes I have gathered dms and words men say to you simply because you’re a girl. I would like to add that most sentences or words said are likely from men with an iq below 100.
This might be used as a request to do an examination of men’s brains when they say such things.
There has been many cases where men have wrote or said diabolical things, but only now have I started documenting. The date is now 4th of may, 2025.
Case number 1
Today, I was on vc in a server called “dadscord” on an social app called Discord. I was having a conversation with fellow Arabs, when a user called …. joined. He spoke, but I started cursing him out, because he interrupted me. He ended up leaving. Maybe an hour later, he texts me.

In the call, I was questioning him. To be honest, I was ragebaiting him. He left the call of me mid sentence, which pissed me off. I didn’t think anything of it until two hours later, he texts me that I’m cute. It was a surprise because I had been so rude to him. He proceeded to say that he found me attractive and that he wrote a paragraph about his “first impression of me”. This is what he wrote.
I personally think you're someone thats very to herself, you don't express your emotions much, because you feel they make you weak or vulnerable, you started off very open and honest which you stil lare but trusting people became a burden, trusting people hurt you more than it benefitted which is why... you rarely trust people nowadays and are sketpical of absolutely everything. You have become emotionally numb due to your past, you smile in public but alone you tend to reflect upon who you truly are, when shown kindness you cherish it and love it, but always wonder about the intentions of that person.
You love meeting new people, to escape reality. You are kind. and its used against you, people take advtange of your kindness
you love attenion and feeling special
When overwhelmed well, even when not you tend to overthink and get anxious. it makes you grateful and feel alive. Also very very vulnerable, you want to learn always and feel feminine
You have defensive mental barriers to keep you safe and only up if someone can prove they will be loyal and caring towards you, you overthink a lot and just want to be heard, you just want to turn to someone special thats encouraging.
You hate the uncertainty caused by your current life affairs, you enjoy distractions because facing the real world sometimes hurts you more than anyone could ever know. Sometimes you feel so down and close off because that's actually your way of not being a 'burden' on others when in reality you just want to be happy and content, which you are
Here’s more stuff he said:
i'm a flirt, what I really like is an uncontrollable Arab woman who is stubborn but softhearted hv a conversation
you’re such a brat, spoilt stubborn brat
Now the question is, maybe he found me interesting, not like anyone he has seen. But I believe that’s wrong. I’m almost 100% sure he did this, simply because I’m a girl.
Here’s the catch. I asked him his age, he did not want to say. He proceeded to ask “you first”. This may be because if I wasn’t in his age group, he could respond an age close to mine.
Now why would he do this? What are his intentions?
My personal theories:
1. He thought it might impress me.
2. He has too much free time, and documents his first impression on any girl who gives him attention.
3. He is a fucking creep.
After researching, I have come to the conclusion that:
This guy is terrifying. Not to me, but to young girls. He is a creep like most men in this note, but unfortunately, he is on the more intelligent side. My guess is about 90-100.
Note: 90-100 is not intelligent, but for his kind it is.
He was using emotional manipulation tactics like love bombing, projection, and flirtation mixed with insults. He does not know me, yet he created a fantasy version of me based on the small interaction we had on discord and my bio. This was a mix of trying to gain my attention, provoke an emotional response, and create a false sense of connection. This man’s behavior fits patterns found in toxic dating psychology, and manipulative communication.
My friend suggested making it into a YouTube video, and I did, but I got a bit lazy at the end.