Why do some men 'forget' how to do basic tasks like laundry, cooking, or planning a date? In this episode, Nic and Joie from The Hop Pod join Sonia and Avery to explore weaponized incompetence. Is it a real problem, a gender stereotype, or just laziness? We break down the facts and get to the heart of this controversial issue.
0:00 Intro
1:40 What is Weaponised Incompetence?
5:27 Gender Stereotypes
10:38 Emotional Responsibilities
15:24 Gentle Parenting and Coddling
19:48 Are Women or Men More Likely to Weaponise Incompetence?
23:20 Response to Being Called Out
28:43 Actual Incompetence VS Weaponised Incompetence
29:54 Conclusion
Featuring:
Sonia - / soniachew
Avery - / averyaloysius
Nic - / nicholasyeam
Joie - / joietan
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Men, Explain is a bold, unfiltered podcast where two men and two women come together for candid, thought-provoking conversations about gender, relationships, and the realities of modern life. Hosted by MediaCorp Radio DJs Sonia Chew and Avery Aloysius, each episode explores a different theme—from career ambitions and financial independence to dating, societal pressures, and navigating love in the digital age. By tackling real, relatable issues, we aim to bridge the gender divide and leave listeners with fresh perspectives, new insights, and maybe even a few mind-changing moments.
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