When we are seeing someone in the early stages, a common question we ask ourselves is: "Do they like me?" We think: "If they like me, things will develop and evolve into a relationship, right?"
I'd like to challenge this instinct today. I believe "Do they like me?" is not the right question to be asking ourselves . . . it can even be a dangerous source of comfort that blinds us to someone's lack of intention. That's because someone liking us does not immediately translate into a real investment or a desire to progress the relationship to the next stage.
Real progress must be measured in a different way.
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