Bisexual In A Straight Relationship - Being Bi

Опубликовано: 07 Октябрь 2025
на канале: Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
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We wanted to round out Pride month with a topic that you don't necessarily hear a lot about in mainstream media - bisexual individuals who find themselves in what outwardly appear to be heterosexual relationships.

You might be surprised to learn that a 2013 Pew Research Center survey of LGBT people found that 84% of people who identify as bisexual and in relationships, were in relationships with those of the opposite sex.

There are a lot of issues that can come up when you're bisexual, but you outwardly appear to be in a hetero relationship, so today we wanted to make a video about how to deal with this specific situation.

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2013 Pew Research Center Survey:
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Hi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples.

Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day.

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