How To Be Self Confident
How To Be Self Confident
/ drralphbroussard
Are you one of those timid souls that wants everything easy in life? ( By the way, don't we all)?
One of those that gives up a the least bit of resistance? (Some sooner than others).
Want your "dessert before dinner"? Let's be truthful, don't we all really want it this way?
And yet, if want the good things in life, there are times that we must discipline ourselves. boo!!! boo!!! I hear ya. Just pretend that I'm right for a moment will ya?
If so, I'd like to share four secrets with you...
First,
The universe cannot be tricked.
It will always give you what deserve when it comes to rewards i.e., ( the perfect mate, harmonious relationships, a prosperous business. or the more esoteric -- peace, joy,prosperity, tranquility etc).
There's a price to be paid for whatever it is that you want in your life ...in other words, there is no free lunch; (unless you win the lottery, and even then you'll manage to lose or squander the proceeds if you don't deserve them because your self image says "you don't deserve this" and subconsciously you'll find a way to get back to zero.
Secondly,
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Want a different result in your life? Then you'll probably need to take some different actions.
Your self image is like a gyroscope when it comes to where we end up (unhealthy relationships, poverty, etc). Unfortunately your self image is not malfunctioning, it's giving you exactly what you think and feel you deserve.
Because -- whatever shortcuts you've tried to take, wherever you've "given up" when it comes to doing what "needs" to be done in your life in the past... has been recorded and stored -- you'll eventually get what you feel like you "deserve" subconciously.
Thirdly,
Too much dessert before dinner, will come back to haunt you.
If you'd like to respect yourself more; then there are small battles everyday that must me fought and won. ( i.e.,get to work on time, exercise when you don't feel like it, eat a salad that evening instead of hot fudge cake, etc.)
Every small battle that you win goes a long way in helping you gain respect for yourself. Those small battles end up resulting in huge gains.
Every time you fight the battle and win...you feel better about yourself.
Fourthly,
Everything is hard before it's easy.
But after developing those healthy habits, things begin to snowball for you.
Your new found habits become those things that will propel you into your new future. Proper eating, exercising our bodies and our minds... developing good relationships, etc,
Your core strengths are being developed as you face each small battle and walk away with the win.
The bad news is that it takes work. The good news is you can do it! Pay the price now for the life that you want to live in the future.
Yes...I'm rambling, but I am so desperately trying to help. Self Image first-aid is necessary at times.
Hopefully you've watched the video up above these paragraphs. It is meant to encourage you. You'll notice that even those that we consider to be "talented" in a special way had to pay a price.
By the way forgive the grammar and just try to digest the intent.
Develop a healthy self image; for it is the rudder to your ship . How do I do this you say???
Practice doing the next right thing. One inch; one day; one week at a time. For it is in these small steps that you will find your greatness.
/ drralphbroussard
How To Be Self Confident
• How To Be Self Confident