I’m not ashamed to say that there are days during the week when I find myself scrolling on TikTok more than actually being productive. Luckily for me, that means I’m constantly refreshing my mind with new inside jokes, lingo, and phrases, all coined by different TikTok users. Whether or not you’re a TikTok fanatic, there are references that (IMO) you should be aware of, at the bare minimum — and the internet’s most recent favorite is the “Very demure, very mindful” TikTok trend.