Jealousy
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Jealousy is a militant fear. You want to possess your beloved, but they can be stolen. Or they can deceive and betray you. Therefore, jealousy is most often a thirst for possession and the fear of being deceived by a foolish outsider. This mixture of fear, anger, and humiliation is called jealousy. And sometimes, sadly, love.
They say: if someone is jealous, it means they love. Do you think so too? If you believe your partner loves you because they're jealous, it's time to consider what, exactly, you call love? Dependence and control? Or perhaps aggression and fear? What a "love"! And then you wonder: "Why does he love me like this..."
The desire for possession is the root cause of jealousy. First, you mentally appropriate your beloved. And then you can't understand how to live without them.
You can imagine this as a tunnel of the future that the jealous person has created in their head. In this tunnel, they joyfully anticipate a happy life with their partner. And when their partner's behavior doesn't match this picture, the jealous person becomes nervous. Fearing the loss of their imagined future, they become angry and capricious—in other words, jealous.