Ask A Sex Therapist: What Do I Do When My Husband Wants Sex Every Day And I Don’t?

Опубликовано: 08 Декабрь 2025
на канале: Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
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It’s our very first Ask A Sex Therapist video where we answer questions from Instagram! Today we’re answering a question about a couple who has negotiated sex twice a week but both partners are still unhappy and on the verge of divorce — can they get out of this cycle?

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Hi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples.

Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day.

Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before!

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