Toto Wolff's Mercedes "silver arrows" F1 cars lost the Monza, Italy, Grand Prix September 8, 2019 to Ferrari, but he won my admiration for calling it a good thing, as the grieving young driver dedicated his first F1 Grand Prix victory to his best friend, who died in a F2 crash the previous day. It takes a mature person to believe "everything happens for a reason" after his best efforts have failed. It is not a "cop out," but a realization that acceptance and moving forward is always better than anger and bitterness.