The Fear of Abandonment: How it Can Push People Away - Complex Trauma Prisons

Опубликовано: 25 Март 2026
на канале: Tim Fletcher
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Tim explores the relationship between the fear of abandonment and Complex Trauma.

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Abandonment in childhood creates fear of abandonment, which creates a series of patterns that are intended to prevent abandonment from ever happening again; but that actually create abandonment. It is a prison. Tim explores why this happens and how to change it.

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
02:11 10 Questions to Ask Yourself
04:07 Understanding the Abandonment Life Trap
08:15 3 Main Triggers
13:03 Why is abandonment a prison?
14:20 3 Types of Abandonment
17:20 The Characteristics of the Abandonment Prison
34:39 The Origins of the Abandonment Wound
37:30 Recovery Dangers
42:19 Healing

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DISCLAIMER:
Tim Fletcher is not a doctor or licensed therapist. Tim’s videos are for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment.

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