Are bachelor and bachelorette parties for cheaters? Apparently people are known to be a little naughty at these parties - and it ranges from flirting to actually cheating. Everyone defines cheating differently, so would you consider a lap dance cheating? I would say kissing or hooking up with someone is cheating and people are known to do all of the above. If you’re with someone who’s jealous, Maybe a joint celebration is the way to go