Confession without morality
No one is a saint
Over the years of life, you begin to understand the main thing: there are no ideal people. Not among men, not among women. We all have baggage. We all have our own shadows, weaknesses, contexts. Outside - a facade, inside - chaos. People are more complex than you want to think.
No matter how much you dream of a “pure” and “correct” girl - you will still face the fact that she is also a person. With her cockroaches. With her jambs. With her stories.
And even those whom you previously considered “dirty” - the same escorts - can turn out to be:
✔️ cheerful
✔️ easy to communicate with
✔️ open
✔️ without illusions
✔️ great at sex
❌ This does not mean that you need to fall in love with everyone.
❌ This does not mean that you need to approve of everything.
🔥 This means you grow up when you stop dividing people into black and white.
A man becomes truly mature when he looks through morals, through labels, through the cover. When he sees the essence.
An escort is also a role. Like an “ideal wife”, “student”, “Instamodel” or “a girl you can go to the registry office with”. Inside, there is always a person. And sometimes you are surprised how alive and real he can be exactly where you did not expect.
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This is not romanticization. This is the experience of a grown man who has stopped dreaming about a fairy tale and has started to see people. Without idealization. Without judgment. Without blinkers.
✔️ You don't have to love everyone.
✔️ But if you are not able to see different things, you are not mature.
✔️ If you still divide people into "light" and "dark" ones, you live in an illusion.
Panfer speaks honestly, as it is:
👉 "Even those whom I used to hate can turn out to be cool. Just not in the roles that I used to assign them."
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