I find that everyone has a whole lot of judgement these days, and being true to ones self no matter how weird or strange, I think you end up finding that there are more people than you thought that are the same way, and you're not as weird as you thought you were . Everyone ELSE was just scared of being judged.. Just like you. SO... I'll go first, and put it out there. Hopefully this community is as safe as I think it is!! if not.. try to be kind at least.... LOL