Men - wish you could last longer during sex? If you’re looking to last longer in bed without relying on numbing sprays or performance anxiety, this is the video for you. As a sex therapist, I’m sharing specific positions that naturally help you stay in control and feel more confident in the bedroom.
These aren’t just random tips—they’re based on real techniques that help slow things down and turn up the pleasure (for both of you).
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The best sex positions to help you last longer
What makes these positions more effective
The psychology behind early climax
How to talk to your partner about lasting longer without shame
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Hi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples.
Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day.
Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before!
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