Nonbinary gender identities can be hard to wrap your mind around. Here I explain some of the ones that resonate most with me, including genderqueer, agender, genderfluid, genderflux, and the demigender identities of demigirl and demiguy. Nonbinary identities in general are not mutually exclusive, and are more like adjectives that describe a person's gender, than categories that one must choose between.