The "Men Should Chase" Fallacy
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0:00 The Setup
1:24 Zoom Meeting
1:39 The Article
2:36 Authenticity
3:45 Contingent Self-Worth
4:30 Actions vs Demands
5:16 Fragile Esteem
6:18 Stable Esteem
6:48 On Validation
7:27 Optimal Esteem
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