Podcast #3. A strong, independent woman and a nice guy. Relationship conflicts.

Опубликовано: 08 Апрель 2026
на канале: Психолог - психотерапевт Дмитрий Мелешко
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In this podcast, we covered topics such as:

Who is "strong and independent"?
Who is a "nice guy"?
What is their relationship model?
The reasons why she became "strong"
The reason why he became "nice"
Why and how do they find each other?
What is their benefit in this relationship?
Why isn't she taking the right position (possibly her fears) or what is she most afraid of?
Why isn't he becoming strong in this relationship?
Is it possible to change in this relationship, and how can we do so?
How to start a new relationship correctly?

TIMESTAMPS

0:00 Teaser
0:26 Theme: "Woman - I Am Myself"
1:19 Introduction of Dmitry
1:52 Who is she - a strong and independent woman?
5:21 Portrait of a "Nice Guy"
7:42 A Nice Guy is looking for a mother
9:04 Who is the "I Am Myself" woman looking for?
12:35 The "I Am Myself" woman is incredibly tired
14:44 A power struggle in the family
15:48 The origin story of the "I Am Myself" woman
19:38 Who are the teachers in the kindergarten?
21:54 If I am kind and caring, then I will be happy
22:48 Nice Guys don't allow themselves a very important emotion
25:03 When a child realizes that they are an individual being
25:51 When a man achieves everything on his own
27:27 What distinguishes a Nice Guy from a man?
29:40 The "I Can Do It Myself" Man
30:49 The Desire to Change Someone Else
32:20 Manipulating a Nice Guy
32:54 How to Stop Being "I Can Do It Myself"?
35:45 What program should I take to resolve this issue?
36:20 More about Dmitry's courses
42:17 Is It Possible to Change in a Relationship?
45:50 How to Start a Relationship the Right Way to Avoid Repeating Previous Relationships?

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Psychologist-Psychotherapist Dmitry Meleshko
Host: Pavel Bolvinov