Curative Kink: Understanding the Intersection of Arousal, Shame, and Healing
Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual assault, sexual trauma, and BDSM. Listener discretion is advised.
In this powerful episode of Just Healing, host Dr. Debra welcomes Andrew Pari, a licensed clinical social worker and trauma specialist who is changing the landscape of sexual trauma recovery.
Andrew discusses his innovative approach, which he calls Curative Kink, and how it helps clients achieve profound healing by addressing the gaps in traditional sexual trauma treatment. He shares how his work helps survivors safely reenact traumatic events to gain mastery over their past and experience exponential results beyond what he expected.
The conversation also tackles the difficult but essential topic of arousal during sexual assault. Andrew explains the biological and evolutionary reasons for this physiological response and why it is a source of intense shame for survivors. He highlights the importance of understanding the unique context of each person's trauma to help them heal.
Watch to the end for Andrew's inspiring message on finding hope and the courage to "lean into fear".
🔗 Connect with Andrew Pari
Website: https://saawareness.com/
LinkedIn: / andrewpari
📙 Check out the book Andrew mentioned: COME AS YOU ARE by Emily Nagoski
💻 Visit MenHealing at: https://www.menhealing.org/
🌟 SCRIPT Conference
Andrew will also be presenting at the SCRIPT Conference—a free community-focused event offering workshops, conversations, and continuing education credits.
👉 Learn more & register: https://www.thescriptconference.com/
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