The Christ does indeed understand the mind and spirit of every woman. As such if a husband is serious about achieving this greatest goal, being like the Christ, that is to understand his wife’s mind and her spirit. As He does, he’ll need to have within himself an above average commitment to his Christianity.
Following the instructions given in Ephesians 5 verse 21, you will be required to re-evaluate the traditional thinking regarding submission found in verse 22.
This video will help teach you how to do that.