dear incels: there's hope for you, but only if you stop embracing toxic masculinity
Reading so many of the #toxicMasculinity in-cell/ #meninist type #sexist #misogynist bs responses that the #bearVSMan debate has been triggering just makes me reflect on the #NiceGuy fallacy and how that whole anti- women attitude of "all females are #golddigger b*ches" keeps repeating itself, and the people who are most harmed by this ideology (mentally if not physically) are the dudes themselves. Look, I'm absolutely not saying forming #relationships is easy--I had a heckuva time connecting to people in my younger years, before I realized it's much easier for #autistic and other #neurodivergent / #neurospicy people to relate to others who are in the same boat as us. But if your goal is #love and #companionship (and seggs), then upholding harmful myths about "all women" is NOT how you find any of that.
Stay realistic (plenty of supermodels date men who aren't themselves super hot, but don't limit your search to only "10s"), and work on improving the parts of yourself that you can (and be aware that even if you were to be rich and handsome, your chances of finding long term happy relationships still greatly depend on your personality as well).
Good luck... I say that honestly. No one deserves (straight out of the womb) to be #lonely, you just have to seek out the kinds of people you "gel" with to find someone. ❤️