Not every avoidant is emotionally unavailable just because they’re scared—sometimes, they’re using you to meet their needs while avoiding real intimacy.
It can feel confusing. One minute they’re close, the next they’re cold. But if you look closely, the signs are always there.
In this video, we’ll break down:
✅ The 3 major signs an avoidant is using you
✅ What to do when you realize you’re being used (and how to reclaim your peace)
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