Desired motherhood:
• you are the desired type of mother you want to be
• your type of parenting is good for you, your kids, your family
• you are good for your kids and they are good for you (attracted your dream kids)
• all sorts of desired parenting experiences
• desired type of family
• love and respect yourself and your kids simultaneously
• good mentor for your kids
• it's good for your kids to see you're a happy mother