00:00~00:56 Men Who Lose Out Because They Miss Signs of Interest
00:57~02:20 First. S-T
02:21~03:43 Second. Things a man can do alone together
03:44~05:06 Third. Indirectly slandering other women
05:07~06:15 Requesting a free book in the comments
If you do not recognize a woman's signs of interest, you are currently suffering a huge loss.
You might be missing out on countless women who could have been your soulmate.
It may be hard to believe, but did you know that women also make it obvious when they like someone?
Of course, because they do it subtly so that men find it difficult to notice,
except for experienced men, everyone ends up missing a woman's signals.
However, unlike men, women are like sunfish.
If they make subtle signs and the man doesn't notice, they don't push harder; they just give up.
It might be easier to understand if you think of it as possessing the body of a tragic heroine. Of course, you might not like this behavior itself, but what can you do?
That doesn't mean you won't date, does it? And there's a high probability you aren't super handsome.
In that case, it's much better for you to just catch on and figure out a woman's feelings.
Most men fail at this, which is why they make women leave.
If you properly master just what I'm telling you today, you won't find yourself pushing away women who approach you without even realizing it.
So, let's get started right away.
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First, the first text.
Some of you might think this is too obvious.
Just because someone texts you first doesn't mean it's a sign of interest, but even so, a text sent first is highly likely to indicate interest.
“What are you doing?”
“Do you want to go see a movie with me?”
I assume that unless you're a complete idiot, you'll recognize these kinds of blatant texts that reveal interest.
Now, I will explain the part that many men miss.
It is the text that makes you think, "Why bother?"
Why bother? Here are some examples of these messages:
Wow, OO, your profile picture came out great haha
Assistant Manager OO, by any chance, where is your profile background?
Is something wrong? Your username is so cryptic haha
Where is the restaurant in your profile picture?
As shown here, they aren't explicitly expressing interest.
Since they are literally just striking up a conversation based on your profile picture, background, or username,
many men tend to just let it slide, thinking, "Well, maybe that’s just how it is."
However, these kinds of messages usually occur when there is a significant level of attraction.
Usually, everyone looks at other people's profile pictures or backgrounds. They do at least look.
But that doesn't usually lead to a conversation. They aren't that interested.
But if there is attraction, they want to start a conversation about these things.
You, watching this video, were probably the same.
And the same goes for women.
Therefore, if you receive a message like this, recognize that the other person is interested in you,
and try approaching them with a little more confidence. For example, if you suggest meeting up first after chatting casually,
from her perspective, she will feel like she’s flying because a casual text message she sent first has actually led to a meeting.
Second, conversations about holidays.
If women ask you what you do on holidays, or subtly reveal what they do during a conversation, it could be a green light.
You have probably subtly hinted to a woman that you are bored because you have nothing to do on holidays, for instance.
Hoping she would say, "Let's hang out."
However, not every conversation about holidays is a green light.
There are two keywords for judging a green light:
They are "alone" and "something the man can do together."
For example, like this:
"I'm planning to go hiking this weekend. My friends don't really like hiking, so I think I'll go alone haha."
"I'm thinking of going to see the ocean alone this weekend. Looking at the sea really relieves stress." If you were intimidated by how attractive the woman was when you heard this, you probably would have reacted like this:
“Oh, hiking is great, haha.” “Oh, the sea is great, haha.”
You shouldn't do that. You have to go for it no matter what, with the mindset that it's worth a try.
“Oh, I like hiking too, haha. Let's go together sometime.”
“Oh, I like the sea too. Are you going far? If it's close, I was thinking of tagging along, haha.”
You need to slyly suggest doing something together like this, without being too serious.
That is the only way to make it happen. Unless you're a super handsome guy, the man has to be the one to make the move.
You do get proposals in return, of course. But it's unlikely to get one from a woman of the caliber you're looking for, is it?
So, from now on, make sure to go for it.
However, there is a caveat. You must pay close attention to the woman's tone.
Especially if she mixes in negative words like "I'm tired" or "I want to r...