Why choosing on DATING SITES has become a problem
We're used to thinking that dating sites help us find people.
But at some point, I caught myself thinking they're starting to resemble my TikTok feed. And choosing on DATING SITES has become a problem!
Swipe.
Another swipe.
Another one.
If someone doesn't click within the first few seconds, we just scroll on.
Like a video. Like content.
In this video, I discuss how online dating is changing our perception of relationships, why we feel like we have endless choices, and how, over time, our tolerance for real intimacy diminishes.
This isn't a complaint or an accusation—rather, a calm observation from someone who's been there.
When dating becomes a swipe, a person ceases to be a person and becomes a profile, a card, a set of parameters.
And true intimacy is always a process, not a perfect match in three messages.
It's interesting to talk about this honestly and without moralizing. Let me know in the comments how you see it:
Have you noticed that dating sites and online dating are increasingly becoming like an endless feed, or is it just an illusion?