John Longstreth on being egotistical - drumtalk [single strokes 43]
We all know this -- in many discussions there often are those guys who bring everything down in favor of being "right", having the "one and only" valid position in the matter whereas it is the beauty of multitude that everybody should learn from. I guess we've all been there, but try to take John's advice and reflect -- "am I sometimes this person that brings it down?"