Why I Fall in Love and I Fail - Marian Rojas Estapé
Why you fall in love and why you later fail in love has a neurological explanation, explains Dr. Marian Rojas Estapé.
We talk a lot about love, and we try to explain our behavior, sometimes inexplicably. We don't know why we do what we do, and we attribute it to fate or always blame the other person.
We don't observe ourselves, and that's why we don't know ourselves. We live on automatic, and we don't observe or know our partners. We don't even stop to think about whether we really have anything in common beyond appearance, material things, and attraction.
Dr. Marian Rojas Estapé reviews the different stages of love, such as the infatuation stage and the attachment stage. She also gives a more scientific explanation of what happens to our bodies and brains when we fall in love or when we have love at first sight.
Knowing yourself and having self-esteem are fundamental pillars for starting a conscious relationship, based on abundance and not lack. We start relationships without thinking, guided solely by sensations, without even stopping to consider what we think, what we feel, and what we do. That's why most relationships fail.
There are many things that influence us, traumas and experiences that condition our minds and brains since we were children, but we aren't aware of it.
Know yourself, know your partner, and have a conscious relationship.
Wake up.
Wake up!