Beware: Unmasking Narcissists' Tactics After a Break-Up
In this video, I'm going to talk about the dangers of revealing too much information about your break-up to a narcissist. By understanding their tactics, you can avoid getting hurt in the future.
If you've recently breakup with a narcissist, then you know how hurt and upset they can make you feel. They love to see you in pain, because it increases their sense of power over you. In this video, I'm going to talk about the dangers of revealing too much information about your break-up to a narcissist. By understanding their tactics, you can avoid getting hurt in the future.
Separating hurts, and narcissists play to win. This winning can take a variety of forms. In a professional context, they make unsuspecting employees jump through burning hoops and get them to do the work that is actually their job. Privately, narcissists always define their victories according to similar patterns: they select certain people, ensnare them, engage in excessive lovebombing, and thus bring them into their world. Once there, they are first "devalued" and then successively isolated from family and friends. They are supposed to belong to the narcissist all by themselves and play solely by his rules. Only rarely do narcissists seek a separation of their own accord. They enjoy the power they have over their victims far too much. And their partners become nothing else over time. If they manage to free themselves from the clutches of this relationship hell, the real battle is yet to come. Giving up is not part of the vocabulary of narcissists. If they had feelings, they would be deeply hurt. So it is mainly their pride and vanity that have been offended. Such an affront is not without consequences. In today’s video we’ll show you what you have to reckon with if you break up with a narcissist.
00:00 Intro
01:37 They promise you the moon.
02:35 Love bombing starts again.
03:33 You are dead to them.
04:07 Telephone terror and stalking.
05:09 They take on the role of victim.
06:19 They want to make you jealous.
06:55 Today’s Conclusion: