Communicate Better with an Avoidant Partner
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Topics in this video:
0:39 Your boundaries around relationships
1:40 Give them options
2:45 Ask in advance
5:03 Avoid passive aggressive language
5:42 Use “I” statements
6:21 One topic at a time
6:48 Keep it safe
7:31 Be attuned
7:58 Use safe body language
8:47 Face each other
9:25 When to reconsider the relationship
Whether you’re in a relationship with someone who has avoidant attachment style, you’re in the dating process, or you have a friend you’d like to communicate better with, chances are there have been times when you’ve wondered if there was a better way to say something, or perhaps a better way of communicating to support their attachment style (and your own!)
This video will give you some ways to communicate with the avoidant style that will be easier for them, and therefore easier for you because their withdrawal strategies won’t be activating as frequently.
I’m Kayli Larkin and I’m an attachment coach.
I help people with insecure attachment style feel more calm, security, and love in their relationships. You can find more resources such as courses, audios, and an attachment and relationships blog at https://www.kaylilarkin.com
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8 ways to communicate with an avoidant partner
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