Relationships, Gender Wars, and Online Culture with Katherine Dee (Default Friend)

Опубликовано: 24 Сентябрь 2026
на канале: Econ 102 with Noah Smith
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This week, Erik Torenberg and Noah Smith discuss modern dating dynamics, cultural shifts, and the impact of technology and social media on relationships with former dating advice columnist and cultural observer Katherine Dee (‪@default_friend‬), exploring generational differences and broader societal implications.

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TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro
(01:46) Diving into dating dynamics
(02:42) Regional Differences in Dating
(06:37) Impact of social changes on dating
(09:38) College Experience and social media
(13:29) Sponsors: Givewell | Netsuite
(15:50) Cultural shifts and feminism
(22:43) Creativity and cultural stagnation
(27:26) Sponsor: Carta
(28:15) Exploring the manosphere
(30:24) Evolution of pickup artists
(33:01) Avoidant Behavior in Modern Relationships
(36:47) Testosterone crisis
(37:23) Political polarization in dating
(38:14) White identity and social media
(40:06) Future of the manosphere and feminism
(44:17) Trans topic
(47:50) Dating advice and market trends
(53:52) Wrap