5 Natural vs Toxic Masculinity & Femininity traits
Before the controversy starts......
both masculine and feminine Energy are good, not just good but great.
And every man and every woman need them both at different times and different situations.
If you think a man must always be masculine and woman must always be feminine, then you're definition of these terms is somewhat mixed up.
Let's simply it....
Masculine energy is the energy of dominance, leadership, command and decision making.
Both men and women will demonstrate this energy at different times.
Think of your boss, employer, government, parents, coaches, army generals, police and so on.
Feminine enegy is the energy of submission, following, obeying and executing orders.
Again, both men and women will demonstrate this energy at different times.
Think of the employees, contractors, population, children, students, army troops and so on.
There is always a perfect harmony between masculine and feminine Energy.
In an army there is one commander and maybe 1000 troops. All the 1000s troops are submissive in a feminine energy state, whilst the 1 leader is dominant in a masculine energy state. Surprising right!!!
Like this everyone wins. There is always note feminine energy than masculine like 80:20 or 90:10.
In most world examples no one has confusion over these energies but there is a huge misunderstanding when it comes to relationships.
Masculine energy is NOT about control.
Feminine Energy is NOT about being abused. That is purely narcissism and abusive control of ppwer which is separate to the energies themselves.
When it comes to relationships, if both are in masculine states there will be a clash because both fight for dominance. Whereas, if both are in feminine energy state there will be no leadership and direction.
The right way is to both mutually agree on when and where in the relationship, one partner can take be masculine and the other feminine. Discuss everything but let there be one who makes the final decision. Have an equal split and use your special decision making power on your strength and interests and for your partner do the same on theirs.
This way you can both experience masculinity at its best and femininity at its best.
Opposite energies attract.
These are only 2 of the 9 energies. Can you imagine what happens when you master them all?
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