Why Don't You Have a Relationship Even Though You Want One So Much?

Опубликовано: 19 Март 2026
на канале: Psikolog Merve Okhız
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If you've been wanting a partner for a long time but haven't been able to find the right person—if you're shy about it, or if you're attributing it to the pandemic or economic hardship—this video is for you. In it, I've offered suggestions on how to transform this situation. I hope you enjoy it and find it helpful :)

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00:00 Introduction
00:17 That comment that inspired me to make this video.

02:32 If we ignore our feelings and thoughts, this can have physical consequences.
02:58 If we don't clearly draw boundaries in our lives, we can find refuge in victimhood.
04:05 Unless we value ourselves, it's impossible to form healthy relationships.
04:40 While you might be mentally wanting to start a relationship, subconsciously, it might be the opposite.
06:02 How can we transform this situation? What can we do as a solution?
10:29 You need to recognize what underlies victimization psychology.
12:28 Are you open to accepting help?
13:14 How do we progress through this process with therapy?
14:38 If something you want in your life isn't happening, the biggest obstacle to it is you.
15:11 Closure and channels to reach me.