Broken People Dating Broken People - Mark Smith
Broken People Dating Broken People – A New Series by Mark Smith on Recovery Dating
. I’m going to use my extra time to get grounded but also to help you fellow millions of Broken Daters out there.
• I have some time. I’m grieving and healing from yet another recent break up and I spent inspired today during a massage.
• I’ll be making this series of videos from this makeshift studio – the picture
• New Calling & A New Message of hope for the following People…
1. Over and over and over again you keep picking romantic partners who you arrange to wound you profoundly.
2. You get shattered
3. You swear that you are going to take a year or two off dating to just be along but a month later you are in a dysfunctional relationship again.
4. Being alone A LOT is really painful!!!
5. Some of you pick Narcissists or Borderlines (I did not)
6. Hopelessness
7. You have many symptoms of PTSD
8. The thought of dating is TERRIFYING to the point of paranoia and paralysis
9. The thought of dating is NOT TERRIFYING, but it should be
10. Fear growing old alone
11. Abandonment Issues
12. Grew up with Hurtful, Narcissistic, Addictive, Abandoning, Critical, Under Functioning Controlling, and/or Subtlety Sucking Parents AND you keep finding people to love you those ways
13. You aren’t getting any younger
14. You are seen by your family as the family relationship fuck up – you can not ever get it right. It is embarrassing.
15. You use dating sites because otherwise it is very difficult to meet people.
16. You feel stuck
17. You are new to being single and you know that you are going to be a Narcissist magnet
18. While it is helpful to learn more about Narcissists it really doesn’t help you much at all
19. You don’t have much joy
20. You’ve spent a fortune on talk therapy or dating, coaching but it hasn’t really helped.
21. You hide your pain from most people pretty well.
22. The instability has destroyed your finances
23. You would never commit suicide but it crosses your mind in your darkest hours
24. You find ways to numb out
25. You feel like a freak, sure most couples are dysfunctional and unhappy but at least they can hold relationships together.
TOPICS
1. Is There Any Hope For Me Actually Being In A Healthy Relationship Again?
2. Don’t Shame Yourself – Grade On A Curve.
3. STOP Over Focusing On Narcissists!
4. Your Pain Originated In Your Childhood, Not In Your Relationships
5. Facing The Spector Of Dating As A Broken Person
6. Learning To Thrive After A Shattering
7. Broken, Bruised But Insightful And Redemptive Relationships Are A Success!
8. The Purpose On Romantic Love And Marriage Is To Make You Absolutely, Totally And Completely Miserable!
9. There Is No One Out There To Rescue Or Smooth You…Except Yourself
10. 5 Traits Your Partner Will Have To Have In Order To Build A Healthy Relationship
I will try to check in on your once a week. Say hello If you are an old follower and you think this series will help you. Say hello If you are a new follower and you think this series will help you.