Mark Smith discusses the many dangers involved in 'Broken People Dating Broken people'.
Nephew bringing me to ‘Halloween Kills’ movie – watch out for the Boogie Man
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#1 You Need to Fear YOURSELF and Your Own Issues – only you are responsible for protecting you
#2 EVERYONE IS BROKEN – It Just Shows Itself Much More Powerfully in People 40 Years Old And Older
Why Do I Say That Broken Person Dating Is Emotionally Dangerous? Narcissists, Liars, Con Men & Women, Cheaters, Sex Addicts, Relationship Addicts, Users, Money Issues, Ragers, Controllers, Fear of Chaos, Addicts (Alc, Drugs, Food, Work, Hoarding, Porn, Phone, Internet, Social Media, Gambling, Religion, etc.), Lack Emotional Depth, Codependents, Borderlines, Venters & Trianglers - friends, family or therapists (Leverage the Tainted Support of a 3rd Party), Victim Mentality, Depression, Bi-Polar, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Other mental Illnesses, Under Functioners, Over Functioners, Blended Family Issues, People Who Can’t Storm Effectively, Arrogance, Insecurity, Stonewallers, Abandoners, People with Abandonment Issues, Paranoia, Sexual Hang-ups, No Fun, Slobs, Health Problems
There is also the dark Spector of living alone the rest of your life
Where/How to meet people – not on a dating site!
My good friend Lenny’s idea for me to start a dating site
The purpose of romantic love and marriage
Don’t Give Up Though!!!!!!!!!
It is much like fighting a war
5 Needed Characteristics to do the work of Broken People Dating
1. Motivation
2. Teachability
3. Ability to Face Off with Your Deepest Pain
4. Trust
5. Emotional Education & Intelligence
Fear is a good thing in Broken People Dating
It IS a Dark Spector
Let the game come to you (Michael Jordan), Let God bring them to you
When the student is ready the teacher will appear
25% of your needs met – Being an Adult In Relationships – David Richo
Find fulfillment and joy in all the other areas of your life
Partnership - Interdependence
My Progress
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