Ep 96 Tips for a Gentle Cesarean Birth with Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Опубликовано: 05 Сентябрь 2026
на канале: OrgasmicBirth
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“Preparing ahead is important as birth trauma often happens when the unexpected happens, and your voice and choice are not heard or honored.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro
While many expectant parents envision an ideal birth experience, it's important to prepare for the possibility that things may not unfold as planned. Complications can arise that require medical intervention for the health and safety of the mother and baby. A caring provider will discuss all options to find the best solution. Having discussed preferences for interventions like cesarean birth ahead of time allows expectant parents' voices to still be heard and choices respected, even when flexibility is needed. An open and understanding perspective and support system can help ensure that however birth transpires, it is still a meaningful experience bringing new life into the world.
Discover proven strategies to give your cesarean birth experience the love, care, and meaning you envision for welcoming your new baby into the world as your host, Debra, talks about how to positively prepare your mindset for the experience, discuss your preferences with your healthcare providers, and enhance the sensory aspects to allow delaying interventions. Plus learn how reflecting on your birth can help with processing and healing.
Write down your own Gentle Cesarean Birth preference and if you would like more support join Debra’s Pleasurable Birth Essentials Online Childbirth Class at https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasur... it is a go-at-your-own-pace course.
Debra also has a class on positively preparing for a cesarean or a VBAC vaginal birth after cesarean https://orgasmicbirth.thinkific.com/c...


Connect with Debra!
Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com
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Episode Highlights:
03:34 Enhancing Childbirth Experience Through Sensory Details
07:18 Cesarean Birth Choices and Support
13:38 Birth and Postpartum Care for a Safe and Supported Experience
17:22 Planning a Gentle Cesarean Birth


Resources:
Videos
Gentle Cesarean Birth at Mountainside Hospital (One of the first in NJ Debra helped film):    • Gentle Cesarean Birth at Mountainside Hosp...  

The Natural Cesarean— A Woman-Centered Technique First ( a video that is used to help medical teams pivot):    • The natural caesarean - a woman centred te...  

Gentle Cesarean Section— Brigham and Women’s Hospital:    • Gentle Cesarean Section Video - Brigham an...  

About Debra:
Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra’s latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother, and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world.

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful childbirth maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians, and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life!

Debra Pascali Bonaro has been featured on ABC’s 20/20, Good Morning Russia, The NBC Today Show, Discovery Health, in The New York Times, The LA Times, and The UK Times as well as numerous Parenting and Health Magazines around the world.




Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the world!

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