The Coexistence of Jealousy and Compersion in Non-Monogamy

Опубликовано: 17 Июль 2026
на канале: Aria Diana Relationship Coaching
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Chapter 6 - Composting Competition and Moving Toward Compersion: A Non-Monogamy Book Club Video Series

'Is compersion the opposite of jealousy?' is a common question in non-monogamous communities. This lively and heartfelt discussion explores the coexistence of these seemingly contradictory emotions and offers insights into navigating the complex feelings often experienced in consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships.

In this book club video series, non-monogamous relationship coaches and metamours Aria Diana and Salina Mae explore chapter 6, “Coexistence of Jealousy and Compersion” of Marie Thouin's book, "What is Compersion?"

We discuss:
“comperstruggle” - instances “where a person feels pulled between jealousy and compersion” in polyamorous dynamics
how we manage and work with conflicting feelings surrounding consensual non-monogamy
monogamous cultural conditioning around “feeling rules”
compersion and jealousy as socially constructed experiences
how stories around relationship expectations influence our jealousy

Join the community chat, get show notes and find reflection exercises about polyamory and non-monogamy at:
https://ariadiana.substack.com

Learn more about Aria, Salina and Marie's work in the world:
https://www.ariadiana.com
https://www.salinamae.com
https://www.whatiscompersion.com

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