Comment “VILLAIN” for inspiration to Speak Up 🗣️ Fellow people pleaser, I see you
Comment “VILLAIN” for inspiration to Speak Up 🗣️
Fellow people pleaser, I see you. 👀 I hear you.
You have tried so hard to be the mediator, the peace keeper, everyone else’s strong and sturdy foundation.
You maybe even took pride in being the cool 😎 and easy going one.
…So much so, that people learned over time to DISMISS ✋🏼 and OVERLOOK you, your needs, your desires, your opinions.
The internet tells you that the solution to this is to enter your VILLAIN 🦹 ERA.
As if suddenly, your world 🌎 will change overnight, you’ll gain respect, and get what you want by being a villain?
I TRIED this.
I let the pendulum swing sooooo far the other way that I became pushy, overbearing, demanding, and aggressive.
Especially in my personal life.
What changed? Almost nothing. 🤦♀️
Why?
Because forcing yourself to be a VILLAIN 🦹 is still hiding your truest self.
It’s pretending to be someone that you’re not to manipulate how others perceive you or prove something. 🥺
My latest collection of paintings “These Lips” 👄 is dedicated to speaking up ⬆️ as your most AUTHENTIC self.
Each painting inspires you to Speak Up boldly, confidently, and in a way that is true to YOU.
You don’t have to guilt, shame, or bully anyone to get what you want, need, and deserve. ❤️
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