Becoming the Money Mama: Rejecting Toxic Mom Culture + Having it All
Becoming the Money Mama: Three Riffs on Rejecting Toxic Mom Culture + Having it All:
1. You still get to decide who you are. Listen, I get it: It’s easy to fall into a pattern of self-neglect when you’re prioritizing the needs of other human beings. There’s a bigger demand on your time, your emotions and your resources, so of course, that’s going to change us forever. But in every moment from now until forever, we always have a choice of who we will be, how we will show up, and what we are and aren’t available for. Goodbye, toxic mom culture.
2. You get to change what you want to change. We are good enough because we are, always. And any improvements we want to make to ourselves can come from the place of I am enough. I am enough, and I get to change things. I am enough, and I get to shift things. I am enough, and I get to create whatever I want. Not, I have to do something to fix myself, to be worthy to others, or to be acceptable in the world.
3. You get to have what you want… always. We get to have what we want. We just have to get clear on what we want. Ask yourself: If you couldn't f*ck it up, if it would work out, no matter what, if no one would be mad at you, if there were no negative repercussions, if it would all just go perfectly, then what would you want? What would you allow yourself to admit to yourself that you want?
On the path of doing what we want, there can be steps. But just knowing that we want it, and knowing it’s where we're going, and holding the vision for it, realigns our path to get us there.
All the love,
Amanda + Team AF