Women who are made into mothers of someone (against their will)
The way the patriarchy sets women up to exploit each other, to have men exploit us and fall into the systems of enabling and codependency and all kinds of other stuff, it’s no surprise so many couples are miserable . We see this everywhere. Whether youre a mother or a parentified child or an older sister or a single married mom, stuck with a king baby man, child using weaponized incompetence, or all of these above, it’s not fair. It’s miserable. And it doesn’t make anyone feel truly valued. Nobody wins in a system where people are being exploited. Well I guess the rich people and men married to doormats maybe win, but they’re miserable at the same time. The only time that a marriage will work in my opinion with the cis het couple is if the man really truly loves his wife AND is willing to do the hard work of unpacking patriarchy and his entitlement. If not, it’s not gonna work out. Well It might work out, but it won’t be healthy. Because you can’t love someone you’re KNOWINGLY exploiting. You can’t love someone that is exploiting you. I don’t know what you call it, but it ain’t love. When people are willing to do the hard work to do better,. It works. But when people know that they’re explaining you and they continue to do it, there’s now way a healthy relationship can exist truly . Unconditional love is reserved for pets and children. Men should not get it especially
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