Do You Feel Like You're LOSING Your Identity?!
It’s normal and natural on this path of self love to go through periods where we feel like we are losing our identities, losing our connection to what we used to find comfort and pleasure in, losing connection
Where we feel like we are going through a phase of losing who we used to be, what we used to value, what we used to do to feel good and inspired.
Where that which used to drive us - the drama, the chaos, the constant fires to put out - the things that used to motivate and stimulate us to keep going no longer exist because we have shifted our patterns enough to have found a basic sense of stability.
And in this stability instead of finding peace or ‘who we really are’ we are instead finding all sorts of doubt, fear, lack of feeling like we know who we are or what we want.
This is what it feels like to go through a deconstruction.
On the self love path it is common to go through periods of deep deconstruction - where we work to make ourselves safe and shift our patterns so that what used to be our way of life no longer is - and this often leaves us in a kind of liminal, void space.
Where we aren’t who we used to be, but we haven’t become or discovered who we really are yet.
This can be an incredibly uncomfortable and vulnerable place to be - one that may leave us feeling tempted to run back to our old patterns so that we at least have something to anchor ourselves in.
But if you are willing to stick this phase out, to let yourself go through the melt-down, to stay in the questions and to allow yourself to first get rid of all that isn’t working for you so that you can eventually come to see what does and will work for you - you are going to be very, pleasantly surprised at what you find.
THIS is how we discover who we ‘really are.’
By letting the OLD stuff melt away, and letting ourselves exist in the void/not knowing space for long enough for the new stuff to fill itself in.
Give yourself the space to be here, and know that you WILL find your answers eventually. Don’t rush this phase.
It’s not a mistake and you will get through it, promise.
Xoxo
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