Grief and Loss After Betrayal
The need to process grief and loss after betrayal is often overlooked because the betrayed partner is busy putting out fires and dealing with the aftermath of the relationship crisis. Nonetheless, understanding what is lost and grieved is a very important part of the healing process and can't be ignored. Kristin Snowden, MA, LMFT, CDWF is a licensed therapist and coach that specializes in helping individuals and couples in crisis after infidelity, emotional abuse, and/or uncovering addiction. Kristin offers several examples of grief and loss issues that often accompany uncovering infidelity, addictions, porn use, and other forms of betrayal. Kristin provides several tools and resources to help betrayed partners process their grief and loss, including 1) exploring what has been lost 2) Identify conflicting emotions 3) reconstructing a new reality. Kristin incorporates "parts work" (adapted from Dr. Richard Schwartz Internal Family Systems). This is for anyone in relationship crisis exploring answers and a path to healing and recovery.
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Timestamps:
2:05 Even if you're healing and repairing after betrayal, its still important to process grief and loss
3:18 Unprocessed grief can stifle the healing process and cause overwhelming emotions
5:18 After betrayal, a betrayed partner can be thrown into crisis causing one to avoid processing grief issues
7:14 Betrayal trauma causes one to loss the 4 C's, loss of control, choice, context, and connection
8:39 Various examples of grief and loss issues due to betrayal caused by uncovering addictions, infidelity, porn use, etc.
9:00 Grief is the space between reconciling the life you once had with the new life you now have to adjust to
11:45 Common losses one experiences after betrayal
15:40 Grief and loss of "former self"
19:50 Tools and exercises for processing grief
23:25 Creating your own timeline of the betrayal
30:30 Importance of parts work in grief and loss
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